Fear Distinctions from the Fear Club Spacholder Training
Fear has many underestimated powers. Making use of your conscious fear provides you with a vast amount of unknown resources for creativity, creation, navigation and agility. These video distinctions bring you clarity and possibility to make use of your conscious fear.
What Is Fear Club Spaceholding?
What is Fear Club?
Rage Club is a radically safe learning environment for unleashing the archetypal force of Stellated Anger.
The purpose of Rage Club is to grow up in relation to the feeling and emotion of Anger so you can consciously and productively use Conscious Anger's energy and information as an Adult in your daily life without being possessed or overwhelmed by it.
Rage Club spaceholding is that particular spaceholding where you Take A Stand for others to grow up with regards to their Anger, becoming a new and different person, someone who consciously uses Anger and relates to Conscious Anger as an Archetypal force of nature.
A particular kind of spaceholding is needed for those people who are courageous enough to learn something that most people in their life have never even heard of, namely, how to own and use their Conscious Rage. People who come to Rage Club are often Edgeworkers. Rage Club is about empowering Edgeworkers.
The Rage Club Spaceholder must have a foot in each world:
One foot in the ordinary world where a first-time Rage-Clubber stands
One foot in the extraordinary world where Rage Club unleashes the potential of an Archetypal Force in each person's daily life.
This kind of Double Spaceholding - or 'bridge spaceholding' - can best be learn by practicing it in the presence of Rage Club Spaceholder Trainer who can already do this and indicate to you what is actually going on and why they do (or do not do...) the things they do (or do not do...).
What is Rage Club Spaceholder Training?
During Rage Club Spaceholder Training, you learn to:
A Rage Club Spaceholder Training is a space where you can realize that you are not alone on this journey of supporting other to upgrade their thoughtware to create a better future for humanity. You cannot hold the context of Rage Club alone.
In the Rage Club Spaceholder Training you may find a new home.
Dear Fear Club Spaceholders Team: Markus and I are half through the journey of Fear Club with 10 fellow Fear Researchers and I want to report from our journey up to now. It is 'Heaven and Hell'. The Hell part is, the shakiness in the space, the tumbling around in the uncertainty. This is so different from Rage Club, where everybody is focusing on Clarity. It is Hell because people are so painfully confronted with anxiety patterns, emotional fears (so many from school!) shaking, sleeping disorders, and being with them right there without trying to calm or rescue them out is again and again Box shaking for me. At the same time it is Heaven because when we call forward the Magician Archetype throwing people into their capacity to scan, to BE in their Fear, to speak as an oracle to the necessity of a teammate, they jumped, they lit up, they shifted from a person, convinced of their inability into Sorcers and Sorceresses, who were thoroughly enjoying her Magic. This turns me on so much, to see people come alive and act as human beings in ways far beyond the reach of what is "normal". Love, Eva Daubert
Fear Club Spaceholder Training September 2022
From Anne-Chloé Destremau:
For a while, I have wanted to share an EHP I went through in a Lab in Mexico in May 2022. It was about this huge panic that would show up when I would go into a big body of water, such as lake, sea, or oceans... I realized it came from when I was 12 years old when my coaches 'forced' me to swim 2 km in a river in France that was so cold and full of algae that it would poke my skin. I was small in height and weight. I had not grown up yet. I was only wearing a small, thin bathing suit. I could feel the seaweed drag along my skin from the dark waters below me, and it thoroughly terrified me. For an hour and a half of swimming I experienced 80% unconscious fear without being able to express it. That massive unexpressed fear was stuck in my body and would come up as a panic attack whenever I was back in any kind of similar situation. I felt very sad about this, because Clinton loves swimming in the ocean and it was an intimacy that we could not share.
In a simple Completing Incomplete Emotions Process, as a demo in the Expand The Box training, in front of all the participants, I finally let the screams out.
Pure, deep, 5-Body, totally terrified screams, stuck in me since I was 12 years old.
I just spent a month in Mallorca, surrounded by seaweed infested waters, and without even thinking about it, I went in and freely swam.
It felt like a miracle! I was waiting for the panic to come up as it always had before... but it did not!!!
Yay! I got to hang out in the warm waters of Mallorca for hours with Clinton. It was wonderful!
I am glad I can share this whole new intimacy possibility with you. And it all came from a ten-minute Completing Incomplete Emotions demonstration!!
A Trainers Path never comes to an end! I love this work!
Fear Club Spaceholder Training September 2022
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The Power of Conscious Anger
When I heard the word “rage”, I used to immediately think “violence”.
Aggression. Destruction. Out of control. Unreasonable. Not okay.
That day, nothing was working my way. After a few hours of growing rage, I called up a friend. Weirdly enough, he was experiencing the same situation! After a solid fifteen minutes of serious complaining on both side, I asked him “What do you do with the anger when nothing seems to be working?”. He said: “I use my anger to do the next thing”.
The power of conscious anger: from destructive to transformative
Taking our own emotions seriously is not only an act of self-respect, but also a political one. It is about accepting what arises as part of us, learning to give it its rightful place back, to potentialize its information and energy into creativity, inspiration and transformation.
Rage was almost totally displaced from my life for almost all of my life. And for sure the conscious and ‘not-gremlin’ one. As I was growing up in Poland, this bizarre country in the middle of Europe in ’90s, I didn’t know anybody who could have taught me how to feel, express and use my anger in a safe way.
Why you need anger to create fulfilling relationships
Why do you need anger to create fulfilling relationships? You might want say that anger destroys relationships and I would agree: too much unconscious anger can do that. And in the same way, too little conscious anger can keep you from really being in relationship.
My earliest memories about anger go back to when I was around 4 years old. My mother and my father are fighting with each other. I do not understand why they hurt each other with words. I want them to stop. Why do people fight like this? Shortly after they separated.
La plupart du temps, j’essaie d’ignorer ou d’engourdir ma colère et de me convaincre que cela fonctionne. À la place, je veux plaire tout le monde et, en cachette, j’accumule en moi des non-dits sans être consciente. Oui, je le vois : je me mens concernant ma relation avec la colère. Alors, pourquoi je me suis inscrite à ce cours, maudite marde ?
Ich benutze Wut um diesen Artikel zu schreiben. Ich benutze Wut um mir die Nase zu putzen. Ich benutze Wut wenn ich etwas ändern will, in Beziehungen für Klarheit sorge und den Redefluss von Klienten in meinen Sitzungen unterbreche, um mit ihnen einen Schritt weiter zu kommen.
On the fifth day of a temporary magic school, it became obvious that the soil in the magicians and sourceresses had been prepared enough for their Dragons to sprout and flame-up the world with a certain kind of poetry. I was one of the Dragon Speakers. Here what I as my Dragon said.
Ich komme aus einem Umfeld in dem mir beigebracht wurde, dass Gefühle nicht OK sind. Es super ist, wenn man gefühlsmäßig taub ist. Eine hohe Taubheitsschwelle hat. Das heißt, wenn mich jemand angreift, verletzt oder beleidigt so zu tun als würde es mich nicht berühren.
When I tell my friends that I’m doing Anger Practice or Rage Club Spaceholder training, a part of me cringes and shrinks. Not wanting to toot my own horn, draw attention to myself or make people uncomfortable. Rage Club? That sounds intriguing comes the response at times.
Have you ever been so filled with rage that you don't know how you could ever express its fullness? You feel the rage bubbling up into all aspects of your physicality; shaking, clenching teeth, fists, and stamping feet? Do you wonder how you could be filled with so much emotion – questioning; 'what's wrong with me!?'
Mut zur Wut: Warum es sich lohnt, die eigene Wutkraft zu befreien
Der Entschluss mich nun tatsächlich hinzusetzen und diesen Artikel zu schreiben fiel in dem Moment, in dem ich wütend wurde. In dem ich die Wut in mir aufsteigen spürte. Wut darüber, dass ich immer noch nicht schreibe.
Have you ever ask yourself why when you are pissed of at someone or something, you can feel such intense, violent energy that fills all your body ? Have you ever wonder what to do with all that? I can guess you have even thought that you had lost your mind. In any case, I would sincerely tell you that you are not alone on this, and you are not crazy at all.
And if something has already been done, why would you want to do the exact same thing again? Will that fulfil the deepest longings that are throbbing away in your heart and soul? Will that feed you the way you have been dreaming of for so long?
Your Greatest Anger Mirrors What You Came Here To Do
If the idea resonates that you may have a mission, a task, a service, a contribution to make to the evolution of humanity, which was self-assigned before you were born, specifically trained-for through significant, perhaps even brutal childhood experiences, then this experiment may open new doors for you.
Prepare by writing out 3 potential Dangerous Questions in your Beep! Book. Then during the meeting, choose and ask one of these, or one that is closer to the heart of the matter in real time during your Fage Club.